‘Getting that balance right between being protective and being willing to accept the independence of your children is something,’ said Dr Francis Fukuyama at the Fourth Summit of First Ladies and Gentlemen

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27.09.2024

American political scientist, philosopher, and Stanford University professor Dr Francis Fukuyama was an honoured speaker at the Fourth Summit of First Ladies and Gentlemen, which took place on 12 September in Kyiv. During his speech, Mr Fukuyama shared insights about the challenges the youth are facing nowadays in Ukraine, where the war is ongoing.

Reflecting on his personal experiences as a parent and grandparent, Dr Fukuyama highlighted the difficulties modern children face, especially compared to previous generations.

One of the most pressing issues discussed was the impact of war and violence on children, especially in Ukraine, where tens of thousands of kids have been displaced or kidnapped. In particular, Mr Fukuyama emphasised that no society should endure such trauma. He further discussed the rise of authoritarian regimes globally, noting the dangers posed to individual freedoms and the increasing political polarisation, particularly in established democracies like the United States.

Dr Fukuyama also warned that the division might affect international support for Ukraine.

At the same time, turning his focus to technology, the philosopher talked about the effects of new digital platforms on children’s mental health. Citing research by psychologist Jonathan Haidt, Mr Fukuyama pointed to the alarming rise in teenage mental health issues and suicides, happening simultaneously with the mass usage of social media.

Dr Fukuyama highlighted that adolescents often measure their self-worth based on the digital presence of others. The speaker supported Haidt’s campaign to ban cell phones from American schools. The philosopher stated that the harms of modern technology require urgent attention from both parents and policymakers.

Mr Fukuyama stressed the importance of nurturing democratic values in children, teaching them to balance personal independence with the responsibilities of citizenship.

‘If you don’t have autonomous, self-directed adults, you’re not going to have a successful society. And getting that balance right between being protective and being willing to accept the independence of your children is something. It’s a balance that’s very hard to achieve,’ – said Dr Fukuyama.

According to the philosopher, while families play a central role, schools, communities, and broader institutions must collaborate in shaping children into engaged and thoughtful democratic citizens.

Drawing from his experiences working with young professionals in Ukraine, Mr Fukuyama admired the resilience and creativity of Ukrainian youth, especially given the country’s Soviet legacy that ‘stifled’ individual initiative. Despite the hardships of war, Ukrainian young leaders have shown remarkable commitment to democratic values, a testament to the country’s potential for a brighter future.

Dr Fukuyama concluded his speech by congratulating Ukraine on its progress and resilience. The philosopher also stated that his work with young Ukrainians had been one of the most inspiring experiences of his life. He ended his address with a powerful message of hope, urging continued dedication to justice, sovereignty, and democracy in Ukraine and beyond.

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